- Perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, and interference in achieving their objectives.
Types/Levels of Conflict
- Pseudo Conflict: misunderstanding.
- Content Conflict: arguing about what was said.
- Ex. "It was 1993./No, it was 1995."
- Value Conflict: someone’s personal values.
- Ex. "I want to have kids./I do not want kids."
- Ego Conflict: focusing on the person instead of the topic.
- Ex. "Replace my stuff." vs. "You're an idiot."
There are Seven Mistakes Made in Conflict Management:
- Avoiding Conflict is detrimental to good working relationships. It is important to discuss and work out issues.
- Fighting About the Wrong Stuff/Levels of Conflict – There are different levels of conflict so it is important to know what the conflict is over.
- Criticizing Instead of Complaining - Criticism is about the person whereas a Complaint is about the behavior.
- Escalation of Conflict - the first decision of a conflict is to avoid or confront. If you confront, do you compete or cooperate? (Reciprocity is how conflicts escalate)
- Attacking Person Instead of Topic - ego conflict destroys relationships. For relationships to survive, you need more positivity than negativity.
- Stuck in One Conflict Style - there are multiple ways to resolve conflicts so it is best to use the best method for the conflict.
- Lack of Empathy - we need to be willing to understand and suspend judgment, but, more importantly, we need to reframe conflicts.
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